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Annabel Park: “Replying to my pro-gun friends”

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Reposted for my friend, Coffee Party co-founder (and award-winning filmmaker, activist, etc.) Annabel Park

Dear friends who can't tolerate anyone bringing up gun control: You're not going to intimidate me with your !!!!s, ????s, WORDS IN ALL CAPS, namecalling, and threats to unfriend. I am going to speak my mind regardless of your protestations.

I just wish you loved the First Amendment as much as your reading of the Second Amendment. Instead trying to bully people into submission, let us speak freely. Most people aren't calling for a ban on guns contrary to your knee-jerk reactions. We want better regulations on something that is already regulated. We just want improvements. To quote my friend Jim Sanches, there's a difference between regulating and banning. 

Respect that America needs to talk about this massacre considering many factors including gun control. So, stop making wild accusations, calling people morons, and trying to shut down discussion.

Dear friends who say that calling for better gun laws is like calling for a ban on cars: First of all, cars are not designed to kill people. Deaths arise from accidents. Secondly, car ownership and driving are highly regulated activities including an elaborate licensing system, insurance mandate, penalties and terms for getting licenses revoked. What we are saying, to quote my friend Mike Stafford, is like calling for seat belt laws after a car crash, not banning cars.

Jim Sanches writes, “If they're going to use the car analogy, fine, let's regulate them as well as we do cars then. We mandate seat belts, headlights, the licensing of every car yearly and liability insurance on every car for starters. Not to mention all the rules of the road, traffic lights, stops signs, etc we all must obey even if we've never violated any of them.

Dear friends who say that Newtown is about mental illness and we should only discuss improving healthcare for the mentally ill: This is like saying drinking and driving is about alcoholism and we should only discuss treatment for alcoholism and not discuss how to prevent drinking and driving.

Dear friends who say the problem is the person not the gun: The problem is the person with the gun.

Dear friends who say we need guns to protect ourselves from the government: To beat the US government, you're gonna need bigger and better weapons than guns. Would you be in favor of legalizing civilians owning tanks, bombs, fighter planes, chemical, biological and nuclear weapons? 

Dear friends who treat the Constitution as some holy scripture from God and who think they have divined the correct, original, literal, interpretation of it: News Flash! The founding fathers were not psychics who could predict the future. They didn't think of everything. The Constitution doesn't mention online identity theft. Does that mean we shouldn't protect ourselves from it? The genius of the framers of the Constitution is that they wrote a living document that was designed to be amended as we go.

Dear friends who think we need more God in the classroom: Our country is founded on the the principle of the separation of church and state because it is dangerous to mix power and religion. Historically, it's led to tyranny. No, we do not need more religion in classrooms. We need more common sense and respect for the give-and-take of our democratic process. We need to insist on fact-based, civil dialogue. 

Dear friends who think we need more guns in the classroom to protect our children: Why stop at arming teachers? Why not arm children? How far will you go in thinking that easy access to guns is the solution to the problem of gun violence in our society? Do you want any regulation at all? Do you want buying assault rifles to be as easy as getting a Slurpee from 7-11? Would you allow children to purchase guns? Do you really think easy access to combat weapons is about personal freedom? Do you really think that's what founding fathers had in mind when they made enormous sacrifices to build America? I'm so baffled and disgusted by this response, I only have questions for you. I can't understand how you're thinking about this. 

Dear friends who fear that your guns will be confiscated: NRA seems to enjoy inciting fears among gun owners that guns will be banned and their weapons confiscated. This is just a fear tactic. I don't see anyone on the national stage calling for this, certainly not on Capitol Hill.  

There is a big difference between NRA members and NRA leadership by the way. There are ideas for better regulations that the majority of NRA members agree on, but the NRA leadership does not advocate for them or are fiercely opposed to them. For example, the majority of NRA members support closing the gun show loophole, reporting lost and stolen guns, and states sharing records with the National Instant Background Check System. 

Instead of encouraging discussion and real information, NRA spreads fear and misinformation. Please listen to what we are actually saying instead of what you fear we are saying. 

Sincerely, Annabel

Annabel is a filmmaker and the founder of the Coffee Party. Her new documentary project is Story of America: A Nation Divided. You can follow her on Twitter @annabelpark and subscribe to her Facebookupdates.

Coffee Party Radio: Join us Tuesday night at 8 pm ET on The Middle Ground to discuss gun violence and what we can do to make it less deadly and less frequent. 

Video: President Obama Speaks at Vigil in Newtown

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Superb speech by President Obama. Here are a few excerpts:

“We gather here in memory of 20 beautiful children, and six remarkable adults. They lost their lives in a school that could have been any school, in a quiet town full of good and decent people that could be any town in America. Here in Newtown, I come to offer the love and prayers of a nation.””

“I can only hope it helps for you to know that you’re not alone in your grief, that our world too has been torn apart – that all across this land of ours, we have wept with you. We have pulled our children tight. You must know that whatever measure of comfort we can provide, we will provide. Whatever portion of sadness that we can share with you, to ease this heavy load, we will gladly bear. Newtown, you are not alone.”

“They responded as we all hope we might respond in such terrifying circumstances: with courage, and with love, giving their lives to protect the children in their care.

“We know there were other teachers who barricaded themselves inside classrooms and kept steady through it all, and reassured their students by saying, ‘Wait for the good guys – they’re coming. Show me your smile.’

“And we know that good guys came. The first responders who raced to the scene, helping to guide those in harm’s way to safety, and comfort those in need, holding at bay their own shock, and their own trauma, because they had a job to do, and others needed them more.”

“One child even tried to encourage a grownup by saying, ‘I know karate. So it’s OK – I’ll lead the way out.’

“As a community, you’ve inspired us, Newtown. In the face of indescribable violence, in the face of unconscionable evil, you’ve looked out for each other. You’ve cared for one another. And you’ve loved one another. This is how Newtown will be remembered. And with time, and God’s grace, that love will see you through.”

“…we’re all parents, that they’re all our children. This is our first task: caring for our children. It’s our first job. If we don’t get that right, we don’t get anything right. That’s how, as a society, we will be judged. And by that measure, can we truly say, as a nation, that we’re meeting our obligations? Can we honestly say that we’re doing enough to keep our children – all of them – safe from harm?”

P.S. I’ll replace this video as soon as higher-quality video is available.

Video, Photo: An Afternoon of Democratic Events in Fairfax

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This afternoon, I had the pleasure of several hours of politics and football in Fairfax County. First, I attended an event for Herndon City Councilmember Sheila Olem, at which State Senator Ralph Northam was billed as the “special guest” (along with master of ceremonies, Fairfax County Supervisor John Foust). After that, I headed over with fellow Arlington Democrat Carole Lieber (thanks for the ride!) to the Fairfax County Democratic Committee’s holiday party at the home of Jeff and Katherine Barnett in McLean.

On the flip, check out the video of Ralph Northam speaking at the Olem event. Also, see the above photo (by State Senator Adam Ebbin) of the two Democratic candidates for Lieutenant Governor of Virginia, both of whom I had a chance to speak with. Great food and drink, good company, and an o.d of Democratic politics; what more could a Virginia political junkie ask for? 🙂

P.S. Oh, and the ‘Skins won (even without RGIII), which had everyone in a particularly good mood.

America’s Shame: Guns Accessible to the Mentally Ill

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Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris (Columbine HIgh School). Jason Holmes (Aurora movie theater). Jared Loughner (Tucson, Arizona). Seung-Hui Cho (Virginia Tech). And, now, Adam Lanza and a horrendous massacre in Newtown, Connecticut. All of these terrible incidents highlight a shameful situation in this country: the inadequate nature of our mental health treatment for the seriously mentally ill, a tiny few of whom are capable of snapping and harming themselves and others, and the absurdly easy access to guns. Even more frightening is that this country doesn’t attempt to identify the people who should never touch a gun, much less an assault weapon, nor do we have effective mechanisms to keep them away from deadly weapons.

I remember quite well the uproar after 32 innocent people lost their lives at Virginia Tech. Virginia politicians agreed that we needed far better mental health treatment, more resources to identify those in need of treatment. The minute budget troubles came along, first to be cut were services to people. Gone was that commitment to change the state’s grossly inadequate mental health care.

There was a movement years ago to close large mental hospitals and move treatment for mental illness into community settings. The funding for those community services never was adequate, and in the Great Recession funding became even worse, as states and localities, including Virginia, cut budgets for social services to the bone.

Caught in the middle of this national shame are the estimated one in 17 people in America who suffer from a serious mental illness and the families that have to deal with them without the resources they need. As Liza Long explains in an article titled I Am Adam Lanza’s Mother, “With state-run treatment centers and hospitals shuttered, prison is now the last resort for the mentally ill…It’s time for a meaningful, nation-wide conversation about mental health. That’s the only way our nation can ever truly heal.”

Liza Long helped me understand how parents with seriously disturbed children struggle with the dilemma of having a child arrested for a crime as the last resort for controlling dangerous behavior. But, nobody can believe that jail or prison is the best environment to help the mentally ill, even though experts estimate that as many as 25% of persons locked away in jails and prisons are in need of mental health treatment.

There are several steps that politicians on both sides of the aisle should be able to agree to, if they can overcome for once their fear of the NRA and their own partisanship.

1. Close the gun show and Internet gun sales loopholes in background checks immediately.

2. Have the Federal government provide money to put mental health records for identified mentally ill people in the background check data base.

3. Require mental health professionals to notify police of those they see who appear to be an imminent danger to themselves or to others.

4. Give parents the power to commit their mentally ill child for treatment without having to swear out criminal charges as the only way to control a situation getting out of hand.

If politicians can muster some real intestinal fortitude, they also should pass the assault weapons ban that Sen. Dianne Feinstein will introduce in the next Congress with a bipartisan vote and make it the first bill to reach the president’s desk. That one, I don’t expect to see happen, however, unless public pressure becomes too great for them to ignore.  

“Thoughts and Prayers” are Fine, but Legislators Ultimately Must Enact Public Policy

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Over the past few days, we’ve read and heard numerous politicians issuing, essentially, boilerplate statements about how their “thoughts and prayers” are with the families of Newtown, Connecticut. That’s fine; I’m not personally religious, but I see nothing wrong with “thoughts and prayers” offered in a true spirit of compassion.

What’s not fine is when our elected representatives offer their constituents no more than “thoughts and prayers.” In short, what we expect from our legislators in a secular, non-theocratic Republic is that they propose and enact legislation, not that they attempt to assume the role of ministers, priests, rabbis, imams – something they are almost completely unsuited and unqualified to do, by the way (certainly, they’re no MORE qualified to do a minister’s, priest’s, or rabbi’s job than any of us are).

Unfortunately, what we’ve seen since news of the Newtown horror began to unfold has been plenty of “thoughts and prayers” but almost no specific – or even general, for that matter – proposals to enact legislation aimed at protecting the citizens of our country from harm at the hands of their heavily-armed fellow citizens. Take, for instance, the “personal reflection” from Rep. Randy Forbes (R-4th, VA), which I’ve posted on the “flip.” It was forwarded to me by a Virginia Democrat and astute political observer who commented that they found it “a bit odd.”

In response to this person’s email, I noted that we do NOT select individuals for public office for the purpose of being our national clerics, nor is this a theocracy last I checked. To the contrary, that we elect these fine folks to do is to pass laws, including ones to make events like Newtown less likely and/or extremely improbable. In the case of Forbes’ “a bit odd” letter, and also in the case of many other politicians, it seems to me that what they’re really doing is covering up their lack of action, if not cowardice, in the face of the NRA, with their profuse, even over-the-top/purple prose (in the case of Forbes) expressions of personal dismay, “thoughts and prayers” – but nothing beyond that.

Again, let me be clear: I have ZERO problem with our elected officials, or anyone else, expressing their personal sympathies, including “thoughts and prayers,” with victims of tragedies, whether “natural” or man-made. What I DO have a problem with is when our elected officials shirk their primary duty, the one we elected them to do, which is to draft, propose, and work to pass legislation aimed at forming a more perfect union, promoting the general welfare, and securing the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity.

In the end, “thoughts and prayers” are fine, possibly even sincere in the case of politicians (although call me cynical, but the boilerplate, cookie-cutter, utterly predictable, cut-and-paste, and essentially identical statements by these folks make me wonder how sincere they really are). Ultimately, though, that’s not what we send legislators to Washington, DC, or to Richmond, VA, to do. Last I checked, that’s what we had mosques, synagogues, churches, and other houses of worship for. As for the politicians? Time for them to come down from their pulpits, roll up their sleeves, get to work, and do their freakin’ jobs!

A personal reflection on Sandy Hook

By Congressman Randy Forbes

December 14, 2012

There are times that news shocks us. And, then, there are times that news sends adrenaline snapping in our veins and bile churning in our gut.  News that makes thoughts charge at our own brain and our hearts stiffen against the walls of our chest.

Saturday’s winter sun rose over an elementary school that just hours before had held twenty-six lifeless bodies.  America is reeling.  Twenty coffins will be cut and fashioned to fit the tiny bodies of precious children. Children yesterday pressed off to the bus stop, milk-laden cereal abandoned in sunny kitchens, beds unmade, lunches packed but never eaten.  Now ashes. Their little dreams frozen, their tiny handwritten school work crudely fashioned on straight lines savagely halted, their fingers never to drum softly on mother’s arms again or tighten around papa’s neck.  “I want to be a ballerina, and a doctor, and a singing star, Mama.”  Gone.

We hunt for words that might mirror the tumult raging in the corridors of our minds.  Tragic. Senseless. Unimaginable. But each word, once rendered on our tongue, is inept at carrying the confusion and horror and pain inside. For those that can, we pull our children close holding their little frames until they pull away and gaze up at us pleasant, but confused.  “Daddy, why are you staring at me?”

Why?  Because our minds are at work painting the faces of our own children, their sweet clear eyes, on the students of Sandy Hook. Because the hollow sounds of gunshots echo in our souls, just as they blasted through the intercom down a hallway in Newtown, CT yesterday morning.  Because we feel the deep chasm between what was once a warm school filled with the high-pitched, off-key singing of gradeschoolers…. now, whose icy stillness is interrupted only by the sobs of grown men and women who have stared directly into the eyes of evil.  

The shoulders of our nation are bent under the weight of such heaviness.  Our raw, blistering grief is center stage for the world.  There will be a day for the what-ifs, and the should-haves, and the if-onlys and the we-musts.   Yes, there will be.

But today we are left seeking a balm to cover our wounds. Each of us will search differently as we are free to do.  Perhaps some hands will cease feverishly wrapping gifts and tacking up Christmas lights and might instead rest in laps, heavy with the realization that we have little power to wipe away these hot and sticky tears.  Such deep horrible groans of grief we cannot silence.  Such evil we cannot undo. “Help us,” we might whisper. “Please.”

As we teeter on the edge of such sadness, though, there is a tug in many of our hearts.  A pull that reminds us that there is good, and that this good is far surpassing in portion to the evil we now confront.  Our minds are forced back to a God often forgotten in the times of prosperity.  A God swept aside even in our times of great challenge as we have stiffened our backs and trusted our hands to do work of fixing what must be fixed.  But now, here, in our pain, we see our own fragility in fresh light.  Here we sit, shaking and inadequate.  We cry not to some moth-eaten relic, but to an all-knowing, all-loving, all-powerful, all-healing God whose handprint can be traced across the pages of our national triumphs and tragedies.  We’ll trust you.  We must.  “Help us,” we whisper.  “Please.”

Virginia News Headlines: Sunday Morning

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Here are a few Virginia (and national) news headlines, political and otherwise, for Sunday, December 16.

*New details, but few answers (“Conn. victims, ages 6 to 56, were all shot multiple times”)

*Remembering the victims (“PORTRAITS | The names and stories of the 20 children and seven adults who lost their lives.”)

*Gun-control advocates say massacre may be tipping point for stronger laws (“In a debate once pushed to back burner, Dems pressure Obama to call for stricter limits on weapons.”)

*More Guns, More Mass Shootings-Coincidence? (“America now has 300 million firearms, a barrage of NRA-backed gun laws-and record casualties from mass killers.”)

*Do We Have the Courage to Stop This? (There’s no sign of it yet, tragically…)

*Some tax hikes, spending cuts now seen as inevitable in January

*Republican Party debates whether loss was rejection of strategy – or ideas (I’d say a combination of godawful ideas, really bad/extreme candidates, and poorly run campaigns in a number of cases.)

*Hillary Clinton gets concussion after fainting

*Source: Obama to tap Kerry to be next secretary of state (Good news, I’m a big supporter of Kerry for Secretary of State.)

*Schapiro: For GOP, doing nothing on roads is doing something (“…weaving an index into Virginia’s 17.5-cent-per-gallon fuel tax won’t produce a windfall for a transportation program that needs $1 billion or more. It could be years before an index generates real money. And that leaves us on the road to nowhere.”)

*Obama nearly matched 2008 margins in Va. population centers

*Terry McAuliffe firm never applied for Va. incentives (I thought Ryan Nobles broke this story over a week ago. Anything new here?)

*The Rapier of Richmond takes on the National Rifle Association (F*** the NRA, may they all rot in hell. That is all.)

*Editorial: Picking on the poor (“Requiring drug tests for welfare benefits is mean-spirited, expensive and ultimately pointless.”)

*Editorial: A reform that is not (“A bill to allocate electoral votes by district would make some voters more equal than others.”)

*Planned $1.4 billion Va. toll road costs too much for too little, some critics say (“The new highway would run between Petersburg and Suffolk, a stretch with relatively light traffic.”)

*Many say they’re not surprised by Norfolk schools’ poor report card

*Cousins will start Redskins vs. Browns  

Who Funds the NRA?

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Whenever National Rifle Association spokesman Wayne LaPierre goes on television to claim that the NRA gets its money from its membership in small donations, he’s lying through his teeth. The real money behind the organization is from industries that make and sell guns and ammunition, as well as right-wing wealthy donors. The NRA receives tens of millions of dollars from domestic and foreign gun manufacturers and other corporations related to the firearms industry through its “corporate outreach program.”

Those who gave money to the NRA include 22 gun makers, 12 of which manufacture assault rifles, and high-capacity ammunition magazine manufacturers or sellers. Beretta alone donated one million dollars to the NRA to lobby to overturn gun control laws in the wake of the 2008 Supreme Court decision in District of Columbia v. Heller, which eliminated laws against handguns.  

The Violence Policy Center Executive Director Josh Sugarmann states, “Today’s NRA is a virtual subsidiary of the gun industry. While the NRA portrays itself as protecting the ‘freedom’ of individual gun owners, it’s actually working to protect the freedom of the gun industry to manufacture and sell virtually any weapon or accessory.”

The NRA is nothing more than a front for corporate money spent to enlarge markets and  profits, no different than the bogus Smokers Rights Groups that were created secretly by major tobacco companies Philip Morris and R.J. Reynolds.  

From 2004 to 2010, the NRA’s revenue from corporate fundraising grew twice as fast as its income from members’ dues. So, let’s be clear. The NRA does not  exist to represent gun owners and hunters. Its purpose is to be a front for corporate lobbying, to help elect legislators who will resist any and all gun regulation, and to strike fear in its members about gun control. The political activities of the NRA serve right-wing political interests, as well. Otherwise, why would the Koch brothers have donated big bucks to the NRA in 2012?

Don’t Believe What Goodlatte Says about Michigan’s So-Called “Right to Work” Law

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( – promoted by lowkell)

A new statement from Bob Goodlatte, published in the Augusta Free Press, elicited this rejoinder from me:

Mr. Goodlatte says that this week’s move by Republicans in Michigan represents “another victory for American workers and freedom in the workplace.”

Don’t believe it for a second. Here are some facts.

** The average wage of workers in so-called “right to work” states is thousands of dollars less per year than in union states.

** The power of unions in America is lower now than it has been in generations.

** The proportion of our GDP that goes to wages is now lower than it has been in generations.

The wages of workers have fallen directly in correlation with the power of unions. Even as American workers productivity has continued to climb, wages have flat-lined and all the benefits of increased productivity have gone into corporate profits.

These are the facts.

But along comes Bob Goodlatte to tell us that this latest Republican assault on the power of labor represents a victory for workers. It is the very opposite.

The law past in Michigan represents a victory not for the workers, but for the corporations who will be able to pay them less. It is not about enhancing workers rights, but about undermining workers powers. Divided they fall.

This Michigan law represents another piece of the larger pattern that shows what today’s Republican Party is about. It takes wealth and power from those who have less to give to those who already have the most.

And then, as in this piece of propaganda from Mr. Goodlatte, it lies about what it’s doing.

Andy Schmookler ran this year for Congress in VA-06.  He’s an award-winning author, political commentator, talk radio host and teacher.  A summa cum laude graduate of Harvard, he earned his Ph. D. from Berkeley writing the first of his books analyzing the forces that operate in civilized systems, The Parable of the Tribes: The Problem of Power in Social Evolution.

Now Is the Time for That Discussion About Guns

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Let’s begin that discussion about guns: the current application of our Second Amendment protects the proliferation of weapons. At the time it was written, it was damn difficult to kill with them, though Aaron Burr managed not long thereafter. That amendment was never meant to aid and abet carnage.

I don’t remember not owning a firearm. My first was given as a Christmas present when I was young; a Savage over and under .22/.410. My father instilled the greatest respect for firearms in me. He locked them away and I did not have access unless there was a purpose. Later I learned that upon his return to college from the Pacific theater and engagements on Tarawa and Saipan, he’d kept a handgun at his bedside. One night late, a spring roller blind in the bedroom snapped open and by the time he awoke he had locked, loaded, and drawn down on my mother who’d jerked up next to him in bed. He’d nearly killed her. Weapons in their home remained secured after that.

As a college student, I carried a weapon wherever I travelled. I did not have one with me the morning in Richmond when three fellows with sawed off shotguns came into the convenience store near Carytown where I worked. Thinking back, I don’t think it would have helped the situation much, even if I’d open carried. After all, they were only exercising their own open carry rights.

You’ll find no one more rationally and sentimentally supportive of the second amendment than I. But all this silliness, false bravado, and acting out about what gun rights mean misses the problem it has created: we have guaranteed access and availability of firearms to every individual regardless of their capacity, intent, or history. And our own Governor McDonnell is on record as supporting “the more the merrier” approach to provision. This outcome and attitude is sinfully irresponsible and far from the intent of the framers.  

This society is not the society extant at the turn of the 19th century. The weapons and ammunition available today weren’t even science fiction when the Constitution was written. There was no rifling and people had to stand a few paces from their target if they hoped to do more than scare their adversary with a pistol. The reload gave time to reconsider. Early Americans knew, cared for, and used their weapons purposefully, most often to stock the table. They weren’t toys or extensions of their “selves.” And they usually didn’t own an armory’s worth. If they did, they kept them in an armory.

Imagine my surprise when I checked into Quantico for Officers Candidates School and my weapon was confiscated (along with an unopened fifth of Johnny Walker). You see, the military understands a weapon’s purpose and does not allow the casual brandishing or unsecured possession of personal arms aboard forts and bases. Years later, when I was assigned to temporary duty there and an officer candidate in another platoon, screened and selected for a commission, threatened another with a bayonet in a deserted squad bay, I understood the wisdom of that policy as two others on staff and I responded. Wise, even though the only one “armed” at the moment happened to be the perpetrator.

When my father and I went to hunting camps, restrictions were stringently enforced. Upon the return from the hunt, we always cleaned and maintained our weapons then placed them in a secured space usually locked by the cook who left for the night with the key. No one was allowed to uncork a bottle of booze while any weapon was unsecure. It is absolutely true that guns and alcohol do not mix. These were rules that were respected. The camp policed itself.

So when I have to think about whether it is open carry or concealed carry that is allowed at a bar in Virginia, I still get confused. And if I am confused, what the heck with the thousands of Virginians who get concealed carry permits without ever handling a weapon. When I attend political gatherings where there are people with holsters strapped around their generous bellies, I am alarmed. I wonder if one of these fat f^%$ has a heart attack and I try to give CPR, I might get drawn on.

During my assignment to recruit training there was an incident where a recruit, while being closely supervised at the pistol range (as in one coach per two recruits), managed to shoot himself in the head during familiarization firing. Even under controlled conditions, guns are dangerous. Guns have become symbols rather than practical tools of self-defense. They have proliferated for reasons beyond individual rights. There is a certain status they convey for any of a number of reasons; most not good. These have nothing to do with defending against a tyrannical government. Many gun owners have no inkling that that is the defense that allows us to play with them without any coaches (or many rules) at all.

“Not even kindergarteners learning their A, B, Cs are safe. We heard after Columbine that it was too soon to talk about gun laws. We heard it after Virginia Tech. After Tucson and Aurora and Oak Creek. And now we are hearing it again.” – New York City Mayor Bloomberg

The fact is, guns do kill people, no matter how snappy that worn out mantra is. I do not believe for a moment that it would have been my father who killed my mother if he had pulled the trigger that night in Columbia, Missouri. No more than the law believes that John Hinckley was “responsible” for shooting Ronald Reagan, Thomas Delahanty, Timothy McCarthy, and James Brady. That’s right, there were four of them shot that day, not the two always remembered. Two of them armed at close range, against one assailant.

When I was living in Damascus a Syrian woman told me she would never come to America. It is too dangerous. What she saw on TV led her to believe that getting mugged at an ATM was a common occurrence and that nights were unsafe here. Of late I have wondered if her mind had changed relative to her own country. But yesterday it wasn’t at an ATM or at night. And it was no less tragic than what must be her own story today.

The contemporary interpretation and application of the Second Amendment is absurd. What we have managed to do is to guarantee that all criminals have guns in quantities only armies would require. Yet somehow the discussion always seems to get stymied at “assault” weapons as a place where we find some common ground. You will hear such wisdom as that if the teachers had been armed yesterday, the tragedy could have been prevented. No. Professionals, a DC policeman and a Secret Service Agent could not keep a President (or themselves) safe. And in neither of these cases was an assault weapon used. (Update: the Connecticut shooter was reportedly armed with a semi-automatic rifle but that does not remain consistent.)

Our camp needs to refine its mores. While social norms remain deficient, we require stricter, enforceable laws. And now and even afterwards, we need a cook to hold the keys.